[Xie Lian is calm, but then, there are very few people who've seen him respond in any way other than gentle calm.]

That's putting together to separate matters, even if they're intertwined enough that they can almost be one.

It would be for Jamil to speak on his experience of death, no matter how many times it happened. At the same time, however he feels, it wouldn't change your experience of loss and pain.

I've made my apologies to those who saw me die, and I regret what they went through. But it's not something that caused me pain, separate from concern, and here and now I'm returned and in good health.

[So, not something he thinks would concern anyone else.]